Stop the conflict.
Living together as a husband and wife sometimes creates some conflicts. As long as you can solve the problem well, it will make your relationship stronger. The followings are some tips to solve your family conflicts:
First, accept the conflict. The conflict shows that there is a difference between you and your couple that you can learn each other. You have to accept the conflict and try to solve it. Never go away from it. Next, focus on the problem. When the conflict comes up, focus on it not on your couple. Never scold or say bad words to your couple that make him or her insulted. Then, listen. Listen to the explanation of the problem from two points of view. You have to listen while your couple is telling about the problem and vice versa. Never shout to your couple is another way to solve the conflict. The louder you are shouting the more your couple ignores you. Keep calm and focus on the conflict. Next, not to be too defensive. If you are too defensive and attack your couple continuously, it doesn’t solve the problem. It will become big quarrel. Talk and discuss the problem to find the best solution. Then, tell the specific problem, so your couple knows what it is about. Furthermore, find the similarities. Try to meet the different points of view. So you come up with one point. A problem is always there, but finding a solution is preferred. Make some choices is the next way of solving a problem. Provide some alternative solutions so that both of you agree to one mutual solution. Making choices means appreciating your couple. Give leeway and reconcile with your couple are the last two ways that you can do. Give lee ways each other to face the problem. It makes you learn to compromise to find the solution. Reconcile with the couple doesn’t mean that you are a loser. But there is more important than that. It’s your marriage.
Key words: conflict, couple, solve, relationship, stronger
Description: Living together as a husband and wife sometimes creates some conflicts. As long as you can solve the problem well, it will make your relationship stronger.
